Wednesday, October 20, 2010

I've Found the Secret! (No, Not on Oprah!)

My kids were sick a week ago last Monday. I wasn't glad for them actually being sick, but it meant I could cancel school and could work on something else.

I chose Professor and Lion's room.

The room had a peculiar odor--as anyone who has a boy with a room can attest. Stuff was jammed under the beds, cracker crumbs danced near the bookshelf and by the wall, dirty clothes lounged with everything else. It was a stew that would make an ogre proud.

I gingerly climbed walked in there with a Sam's Club box of black trash bags--the big ones. I enlisted the boys' help since they were too sick to focus on school, but not sick enough for their bodies to lie still. We took everything that was a toy and stuffed them into the bags. We filled nearly three! Another bag was stuffed with trash, and several loads of clothes were extracted from the piles. I felt like an archaeologist--"Oh, look! These were the pants you wore last year! Remember when you wore those sneakers?" It was bad enough that the "too small shoe bag" was half full before we called it quits.

It took around six hours that day and another hour or two the next (not to mention sweeping enough dirt to plant a small garden--what the heck?), but all the bags of stuff were taken downstairs, leaving the boys' wooden floor gleaming in the afternoon sunlight. They were left with a few things on the bookshelf in the closet.

Every day since then, if their room is clean, they're allowed to go downstairs and get one toy out of the bags. If anything is left on the floor it goes back downstairs. They've been very careful to keep things where they belong. The funny thing is that they're very choosy about what to get, because they don't want to mess up their room again. Having the toys gone makes the room much easier to keep clean. I never, ever thought my boys could keep their room immaculate for over a week! It feels weird even typing the word 'boys' and the word 'immaculate' in the same sentence!

The magic with this method is that the agony of deciding what to keep and what to get rid of is taken away. The kids didn't like putting everything in the bags, but the knowledge that they could take their favorite things back out made it far easier. When they're done taking what they want, the bags will be gone through a final time by me and donated/thrown out.

A word of caution: be very careful what you promise. The day after this happened, Lion proclaimed "Hooray! Now all we have to do is keep it clean for 30 days and then we earn Mario Party 8!" A dim memory floated to the surface of my mind like a bubble that has been trapped at the bottom of a pond--the memory of a promise I made sometime last year, a promise I was sure would never be fulfilled. A promise that doesn't have room in our budget at present.

Well, the clean room has been going strong for 8 days now with no signs of stopping. Professor and Lion are more than a little proud that their room is the cleanest room in the house.

I'd better start checking Ebay.

5 comments:

Dedee said...

You? Are brilliant! I'm trying this!

L.T. Elliot said...

It's amazing how kids remember EVERYTHING. We're doing a reward system right now and let me tell you, every DAY they remind me. I had to learn that I didn't make a deal with them until I had the end result in hand because I hated letting them down. I guess it goes to show that our kids are more determined than we think they are, more capable. That's a wonderful thing, truly.

Love you, Rebecca. *hugs*

thecrazycantwells said...

Oh Rebecca you crack me right up! I completely identify with the strange odor that seems to accompany boys rooms. What in the world do they do in there anyway? I thought it would be different in a new house, but NO it isn't! I simply close the doors and walk away. I'm just too tired to care!! LOL! Some days I make them clean it and maybe I'll adopt your idea. That could work!!

Kazzy said...

Doesn't that feel great???

My friend does a few interesting things. One, she keeps a cardboard box for each child that she puts toys in that are left on the floor. Two, she does the same with clothes. Also, she makes them earn these things back.

Lastly, she lets the kids each pick a couple pair of play clothes for the summer and everything else is "put away" until Fall. The laundry is soooo much less, not to mention the mess on the floor.

Kimberly said...

Genius!

We keep taking stuff out of the girl's room, but we haven't done anything to teach/encourage them to keep it clean. I love this idea!

And happy birthday darlin'!